Thursday, July 31, 2014

life hacks [ 1 ]

I used to feel that my life is miserable, where committing suicide was always a tempting option. Here are some important life hacks that could possibly alleviate some problems and make your life a more enjoyable one.

/ Positivity

Yes, it is really difficult, I must admit. Positivity comes with your personality while enhanced by your social circle. 

/ The right crowd

Just being with a person who is enthusiastic about living life is enough to spur you. This person will let you discover that the grass is always greener on the other side. This person also lets you realise that not everything in life goes your way, and makes you accept it. 

/ Learn some humour 

Everyone can use a good laugh to have their mood liven up. Bringing laughter to people around you can actually make you feel even better, because you know you've brought happiness to them, and that's really crucial. Learn some humour, don't take things too seriously, make a joke out of yourself, be foolish for once and be daring. 

/ Treat yourself

Everyone can use a treat (by themselves); to really spend time doing your favourite thing. It could be reading a good book, eating good food, listening to a good song nobody appreciates, playing that video game you've always wanted to get your hands on or even just buying yourself some new clothes (or shoes!). I mean, after all those hard work, surely you could spend some money on yourself right? These would be the little things you would be looking forward to in your life. 
I call it the me-time.

Keep on musing

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

// love & fate

A love that is fated, what we call 'soul mates'...

You may not have experienced this yet, but Fate knows what it's doing.

I believe everyone has a soulmate waiting to be found, like two jigsaw puzzle pieces that fit perfectly with the other. It could be the person who has always been right in front of you, or it could be the person who is on the other side of earth, but put your trust in Fate, because it knows what it's doing.

Love is a powerful feeling not everyone has felt it yet, but it is one of the luxuries of being a human; to feel strongly. 

Love comes to you like an infection, permeating throughout your body, mind and soul. All you could think of is being able to be with that person, and let's not forget how your heart has that sinking feeling when you think of him/her. That smile you break into without knowing; that's genuine. The tears you shed just thinking about him; that's genuine. The eye gaze you do when you see him; that's genuine. The desire for him to stay safe and not get into any illness; that's genuine. 

To have found your soul mate

Being able to find your soul mate and fall in love is one of the most exciting things to look forward to in life. It is the realisation of a common understanding of each other's behaviour and needs. To have compromises made to stay harmoniously together. It is the ability to have found someone to laugh with, laugh at and laugh to. This person is also the one who is able to go through your ups and downs with you; your best friend forever. It is the definition of bliss and happiness. 

Keep on musing,

{muse estate}

Hi there. 

I shall introduce myself along with this blog, so here goes.


You might probably know me from my previous blog titled "Tha Fashion Gal", a fashion blog specializing in summarizing and picking out the essence of various runway trends. 

My name is Jocelyn and am 19 years old this year. I am a former SOTA student and just got into NAFA diploma in music majoring in the violin.

My hobbies include surfing Pinterest (thaviolingal, follow me!), improvising on the violin, singing in the shower (cuz who doesn't) and window shopping!

{muse estate}

"Muse estate" is a platform where I write posts that are of more general topics, not narrowing to fashion and beauty, but lifestyle in general. I will be writing about school, love, people, food (yes food), fashion, music, etc..

{the genesis} 


  1. (in Greek and Roman mythology) each of nine goddesses, the daughters of Zeus and Mnemosyne, who preside over the arts and sciences.
  2. a woman, or a force personified as a woman, who is the source of inspiration for a creative artist.
  3. be absorbed in thought
  4. an instance or period of reflection


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Keep on musing,